Can you smell that?



I have a pretty keen sense of smell. Which is mostly good, even when it’s, well, bad. Maybe it’s my super power. Not only can I smell the normal stuff, but I can smell the not normal stuff too. Like lies, and fear, and pain and sickness. And…ghosts. I understand you’re skeptical, but lately the scientific community has given rise to an answer as to why I can smell these things and not be a crazy lady in need of medication. I’ll explain…

You see your brain’s memory center actually works more effectively when the information is paired with a scent. Being a scent based girl and a people person, I’ve just attached emotions and people to scents. For example, I know when my kids are really sick because they get sick breath. The scent of people with terminal diseases is more complex. The chatty lady at CVS whose husband abuses her, she smells of fear. Those things all suck. Nice ways that this works…when I walk into a room and can smell my grandmothers perfume, or my dads after shave, so I know their around, even though they are gone. I know, still sounds crazy. That’s ok. I feel better knowing that science shows it makes sense.

Practical ways this information can be useful? Study with a scent that you can take with you. Whatever scent makes sense to you. Perhaps you could think about your To-Do’s before bed while smelling the coffee grounds you’ll brew in the morning. Be creative with it! Scents have the ability to transform your day. I know this will sound awful to some but I’m pretty sure scent is why smoking calms me and makes me feel safe. Smoke and perfume. Same goes with beer & motor oil. Those are safe smells. Those are “all is right in the World” smells. What are yours?

Shake it up


Wow, it’s been over a year here. My countdown is set to expire in a month and where am I? I’ve made some progress. Planted a garden. Kids are a little better in some areas. House isn’t such a mess all the time. I don’t spend every day in the black spiral of hate. But is it enough to call it a success? No. No it’s not. So it’s time to shake things up. Right now I’m sick but by next week…

My kids rooms will look more like this:


They’ll need to earn back their stuff. They have too many things in their life. They don’t take care of them and they don’t understand what goes into acquiring them. Gone are the days when they will lose their $200 iPod and not feel upset about it. Shakey shakey.

There’s gonna be more of this too:

Serious boundaries people. I can only take care of myself. Shakey shakey.

This is my new job:


Time to save some $$$!

I’m going full steam ahead folks. With only a month left to meet some goals it’s bound to be a bumpy ride. Shakey shakey!